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Copyright © 2003 Ron Schwartz
Who Is My Neighbor?
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2005 Ron Schwartz
Luke
10:25-37 KJV, I’ve
read this passage often. I’ve always considered that what Jesus was teaching
us is that to be a Good Samaritan we should demonstrate simple acts and random
acts of kindness. However,
consider this story again.
Jesus was not describing a simple act of kindness.
He was describing a life saving event that temporarily interrupted the
Samaritans life. Also,
I failed to recognize the message of evangelism that resonates from these
verses. We often
think of evangelism as the ministering of the gospel message, but in this story
Jesus demonstrates to us that there is more to evangelism than the preaching of
the good news. Sometimes
it’s not enough to simply declare Jesus to the needy.
Sometimes we must demonstrate Jesus to them. A
Certain Man We
find that a “certain” man took a trip to Jericho. He wasn’t a Jew, a
Gentile, a Samaritan, a Roman, a slave, or a king.
He was just a certain man.
Why did Jesus call him a certain man?
He did not limit it to the religious and heathen, the rich and the poor,
or the well or the sick.
I believe that Jesus was making it clear that this certain man could be
anyone. This
man fell into misfortune, and was “stripped…, wounded …, [and left] half
dead.” He was
not born into his plight, nor did he fall into his circumstance out of choice.
In fact there is no evidence that he did anything to bring this upon
himself. He
simply “fell among thieves.”
In short, his dreadful circumstance was forced upon.
His plight was dire that he was unable recover on his own.
He lacked both the strength and capacity to do so.
So he laid their half dead.
What’s
more, the desperate needs of this man made it clear to everyone who passed by
that only an extraordinary would help.
To merely stop and offer him a prayer, to give him a religious tract, to
leaving him some food and water, to provide him some money, or to wrap a few
wounds would not make any difference in this man’s life.
The only thing that would help is for someone to help in and
extraordinary effort that would cost them dearly in both time and money.
Who would be willing to do that for a complete stranger?
They
Passed by Because of the Cost Many
of the men to whom Jesus spoke this story contributed to the poor and needy on a
regular basis. But
just like the priest and Levite in this story they kept their difference and
usually didn’t even know the names to those whom they gave. Its
one thing to give money that is sent to a relief effort in a foreign country or
to the local needy. This
doesn’t take much of a commitment.
But to get to know those who are in need and to obligate oneself to walk
along side them to recovery is whole different level of commitment.
It’s easy to give indiscriminately because it doesn’t require a
genuine commitment. It
eases the conscience but does not change the circumstance of the wounded and
“half-dead.” One
morning last week while on my way to work I came across a very old van parked in
the middle of the Morley intersection of Jefferson and Northland.
I had a very important meeting to be at so I could not afford to spend
much time with them, but I stopped away.
There was a man out in front of the van looking at the engine and a woman
sitting in the passenger seat.
I pulled along side and asked the man if he needed help.
After
trying to jump the engine we quickly discovered that the engine was seized up.
I checked the clock.
If I left then I could just make the meeting, however the woman emerged
from the van and asked her husband, “How are we going to get the children to
school on time? If
we don’t go now their going to miss breakfast.”
Children?
I didn’t know there were children in their van.
“Do
you know anyone here in town?”
I asked. “No,
we’re staying in Grand Rapids to take care of my husband’s grandmother who
is recovering from a broken hip.
We didn’t want to switch schools so we drive our children up here for
school.” Great,
I thought. They
would happen to be decent people.
It’s not often that I come across men who are willing to make this kind
of commitment to their grandmother. I
looked in the window of the van and saw the children and the grandmother
shivering in the cold.
This was going to take some time.
So, with children stacked on top of children I commenced to take their
children to their various schools in both Morley and Stanwood.
But it didn’t end there.
After that there was the need to find them some other transportation.
This required a trip to Big Rapids for another van.
By the time I finally got on 131 to head to Grand Rapids my meeting had
not just begun, it had ended.
Being late to a meeting with your boss is one thing, but to just not show
up is something quite different, and the situation made it so that I was not
able to even call. And in the current environment of cuts and cost control it
important not to appear as anything but competent.
The stop to help this family had cost me dearly.
Repulsive Perhaps
cost was not the issue for the Levite and the priest of this story.
Perhaps the situation this man was in was just too repulsive for them.
Let’s face it there are people whose life style is repulsive to us.
Maybe they’re what we’d consider “white trash.”
Maybe they’re of another race or ethnic group.
Perhaps we are afraid to be around them.
What ever the reason, we sometimes find ourselves encountering people who
are in dire need of help, but we just cannot bring ourselves to be around them.
Perhaps we know of people who live in trashed out homes.
Perhaps we know of those whose lives are so destroyed that they cannot
possibly change their lives on their own.
To help them will cost us dearly in both time and money.
Have
we ever avoided the destitute because their long hair, beards, and filth cloths
make us feel uncomfortable or even scare us?
A ride into town is not really going to help them much.
They need a commitment on our part.
From time to time we all come across people in desperate need.
We know intuitively that the only way we can make any difference in their
lives is through a costly commitment on our part.
Last
week I saw two large Mexican men standing beside a car parked alongside 131.
They were trying to wave down traffic.
Something in me said, “It’s not their car.
They’re just standing there trying to make people believe that it’s
their car. If
you stop they’ll hurt you.”
I fought off the feeling to go on and turned around to see if I could
help. I
routinely help people who are broke down, but these men looked ominous.
After I stop I discovered that they too had children shivering in their
car, their engine was seized up, they needed help, they had no one to call, and
they needed to get to Greenville.
It was no surprised to discover that they had been trying to flag down
help for over an hour. I
know that these examples don’t begin to demonstrate that great need that some
of our neighbors have or how to minister to them.
A trip to school or to Greenville doesn’t begin to compare to the
terrible circumstance that some people are in. These
examples merely demonstrate that to be a neighbor according to the definition in
this story will impose into our lives.
Stripped
and Wounded One
of the most devastating things a man can go through is the loss of his Job.
It strips him of self respect, self worth, and leaves him feeling like
“half” a man. I
know of men who have gone through periods of unemployment and I have watched
their lives bleed away till they are “half dead.”
Sometimes their homes slowly begin to deteriorate.
Often they loose strength to go on in life.
Years
ago I went through a very difficult time.
I lost my job and then my home during a deep economic recession.
I lost everything that was dear to me.
I ended up spending a Michigan winter sleeping in a pup tent in a state
park. I
eventually went to Texas to find work with the only possessions I had left: my
guitar and back pack. It
was one of the darkest hours of my life.
I remember my first night in Texas, and how I cried and ask God to take
my life. I had
no reason or desire to live.
I almost gave up. I
was “half dead.” There
was no Samaritan that came to my rescue, and so the journey out of my plight was
long and arduous. That
experience did something to me, something that I not sure that I have ever
recovered from. Perhaps
if I had a neighbor it would be different.
There are people like this all around us.
They have been brought down, not necessarily by choice, but by life. There
are women we know who are wounded.
Perhaps their wounds have come from the loss of their husband though a
divorce or death. Perhaps their wounds are from abuse they have experienced at
the hands of their husband or from their parents. Some
women’s lives reflect a pattern of decisions, one after another.
And so they carry around their wounds the rest of their lives.
Often they just shut down and so their children and homes suffer.
They don’t necessary do this out of choice but because they are “half
dead” and lack the strength to go on. So
they lay along the paths that our lives take us in silent pain wishing that some
neighbor would stop and help to them.
They know that they will never be able to help themselves. Sometimes
people are faced with double afflictions.
First they are wounded and stripped by the circumstances of this live.
Then as they lay there “half dead” they experience the humiliation of
seeing the others pass them by.
Like the Levite and the priest through our neglect we sometime
demonstrate to them that they are not worthy of our time and effort. I
know of a young teenage girl who lives across the field from my house.
She’s in her early teen years and she came to one of the Friday night
cookouts. She is
a very lonely young girl who goes to school alone, she takes break, lunch and
study hall alone. She
sits home alone, and her life is spent alone.
My heart breaks to know of how lonely this young girl is.
She has been stripped of self esteem, wounded by the cruel words of her
peers, and knowing that as she grows up she will enter into live never knowing
the precious spirit that she possess.
I wish that I could pay a young girl to be her friend and to show her
love and compassion… to be Jesus to her.
But to pay someone to do that means that they would not be a friend out
of love and concern. Even
within our small group the young people sometimes form into clicks.
There are the popular and… well, the not so popular young people.
I often wonder if the popular young people really understand the wounds
they inflict into the hearts of the other young people by letting them know that
they are not worth their friendship, or at par with them.
Are we as parents teaching our children correctly by allowing this?
Someone
Who Was a Neighbor to Me I
once had a man be a neighbor to me.
It was many years ago when I lived in Texas.
Texas began to experience a recession and new home construction began to
dry up. The man
I worked for no longer had work for me so I was forced out on my own.
I
took a job framing a house for a contractor but competition was fierce and the
margin of profit was really tight.
I had only an old power saw, a few old extension cords, a level, hammer
and square. I
had no nail guns or other useful tools that could help me complete the house in
a timely manner. So
I struggled out in the hot Texas sun 12 to 14 hours a day, 7 days a week. After
about 2 weeks of non-stop work I was mentally and physically exhausted.
As I looked around the home at all the work that was yet to be done I
realized that with each passing day I was going deeper and deeper into debt.
I felt like I was slowly drowning and slowly I began loosing strength and
the will to continue. There
was a man I knew who had a rather large home church.
They met on Sunday and Wednesday evenings.
He asked me if I’d come and share the following Wednesday.
I agreed even though I was quick reaching the point of despair.
I had little left to give.
But I dried my eyes and went to his home that night and share some
scriptures from Ephesians.
There
was a family there that night who I had never met.
The father listened intently and seemed to draw more from the message
than I felt that I gave.
Following the meeting we chatted for a few minute.
I told him vaguely about my job and some of the trouble I had.
When I left the meeting I forgot that I had even talked with him. The
next day while I struggled in the suffocating heat and fought my despair a white
van pulled up to the job site.
The man I met the night before emerged from the van, opened the back of
the van and began to pull brand new tools from the back.
There were saws, drills, blades, and so much more.
I stood there speechless to his act of kindness.
The he did something incredible.
He pulled a blank check from his wallet, signed it, and handed it to me.
“Buy whatever nail guns, compressors and air hoses you need,” he
said. The check
will be good for it.
Then as suddenly as he arrived he left. This
man wasn’t rich. He
lived in a modest home which was meagerly furnished.
The money could have easily been spent on his family.
This man had obviously given from their livelihood to help me.
But why did he make such a sacrifice for me?
He never spoke of this sacrifice and to this day I don’t know why he
done it. All I
know that his selfless act of kindness showed me that I was worthy of something
more than just a slow agonizing death along a forgotten piece of highway.
After
his gift it would have taken a Roman Legion to stop me.
Because of his investment into my life I complete that house and then
another and another. Within
a year I had a large construction company that employed a dozen men – many
Christian brothers who also had lost their jobs. How
could he have known that he saved my life that day?
How could he have known that he rescued a “certain man” who laid
bleeding and dying? Evangelizing
the “Half Dead” Let’s
not forget the balance.
There were three things that the Samaritan had to address in order for
this man to be made whole. First, the Samaritan had to bind his wounds.
This speaks to ministering to the emotional need.
Secondly, he had to provide him clothing for his nakedness.
This speaks to ministering to the spiritual need. Thirdly, he had to get
him out of the ditch. This
speaks to ministering to the physical need.
Evangelism
takes on different characteristics depending on the audience.
The those who are emotionally and physically who there many not exist an
need to minister to these needs.
They need only to be ministered to spiritually through the gospel
message. What
the Cost? There
are people and families, some who live no more than a few miles from our homes
who live in complete poverty.
This area of Michigan is full of them.
But many are not there by choice.
They simply fell among thieves.
Many
of us will volunteer our time and labor to help our friends and other people we
know. Do we do
this because we know the effort to help our friends is not nearly as imposing as
the effort it will take to be a true neighbor to others?
We feel good when we’re able to bring a meal to a fiend, or to do some
house work for them. We
can measure the time and effort that it will cost us and it’s easy to work
something like this into our schedule.
But think of the Samaritan.
Somehow we know that to bring a meal to those who are in dire need
won’t help them. To
be a neighbor to the “certain man” required him to alter his live, his
schedule and his budget.
It wasn’t merely fitting something into his schedule and budget.
It may have destroyed them.
It was a major impact to his life that caused him to cancel and alter
many of his plans. Consequently
we sometimes engaging with people in deep need because we fear that if we start
there will be no end. Perhaps
we fear that if we give to them that they will expect even more from us – more
than we’re willing to give or to help.
And certainly more than our schedules and budgets will allow. Obviously
none of us can help all the poor, wounded, and needy, and that’s not what
Jesus was trying to teach us.
This story isn’t meant to teach us about giving.
This story is about evangelizing our neighbors and what it will cost us.
This story warns us to not neglect the ministry of the stripped and
wounded of our society. Like
the “certain man,” are there those in need who are in our path?
Maybe they are not directly in our path but just off to the side.
Perhaps we can’t help but see them as we go down the paths of our
lives. Can we
journey through live without seeing them, and do our paths converge with theirs?
If so, they are our neighbor. This
word has been a burden on my heart over the last week, and I ask you to please
consider sharing it with your families in whatever capacity the Spirit leads.
Consider discussing with your children the damage other children feel
when they ignore them or form clicks.
It doubles their affliction. This
can happen to adults as well. And we should guard against it.
Consider discussing with your families about who the “certain men
(women, and children)” are in their lives, and what each of us can do to be
their neighbors. Consider
using the following measure to test whether or not we are a neighbor: have we
changed or at least affected their circumstance?
Don’t consider if they are just better off, but are they better off in
the sense that they will now recover.
Have we taken them from beside the road into an environment where they
will be made whole? Are
they in an environment that will nurse them into a “complete man (woman or
child)?” I
pray that this word strikes a chord in your heart as it does in mine.
“Let us not love in word, neither in tongue; but in deed and in truth
(1 John 3:18).” Amen.
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